

They typically just roll their eyes and sigh, and move on with their lives.

See, women dont fucking die when their ass gets grabbed. They just uh, dont really care, or deal with it, or get the bouncer to boot the guy out, or dump a drink on him then get the bouncer to kick the guy out, or they go somewhere else, etc etc.Ī single woman in a club just expects she will get her ass grabbed. You seem to have this narrative in your head that women were shocked they got their ass grabbed. It's not her fault it's happening, but she's also not trying to prevent it from happening. That can be to just ignore it when it happens (what I doubt most people are capable of) or just leave altogether. If the bf doesn't want her to provoce these kind of situations it's perfectly fine to just leave her to the consequences of her negligence. It's sad that women can't dress as they like without getting groped, but that's just the real world for you. In an ideal world, no one would feel invited, but in the real world they will and he will continue to provoce theft. Obviously they can't force him to do that, it's his choice, but it would be the intelligent thing to do. If the store owner sees something is missing when he returns and he reports it to the police, they'll tell him he should make sure to close all windows. Some people however will feel invited to have a look.

Your average person will see the open window and go on with their lives because that's non of their business. The barely clothed person is the equivalent of a store that is closed but left with a window open. If your store got broken into and robbed the first thing police is gonna tell is that you should pick up additional security measures.

We just bump up the severity of the punishment of window smashers til window smashers stop doing it because the punishment aint worth the fucking reward of the crime.
#My boyfriend wants to take a break windows
We dont tell shops to stop putting windows on their storefront cause someone might smash the window. How about if doing it got you a year or two in the slammer? Think guys would still be so casual about it? They get maybe tossed out of the bar and carry on. Right now they do it because there arent repercussions.
#My boyfriend wants to take a break crack
Instead of telling women they dont get autonomy, maybe we should crack down 10x harder on people who think its okay to casually sexually assault others. How often you think people grab womens asses in those areas? Hm? In some countries, getting caught grabbing a woman's ass results in you getting a finger cut off. No, you know what we do? Police officers increase presence in the area, arrest people smashing windows, and make a subject of them going "This is what happens if you get caught smashing windows." Guess we should tell people to just not open stores, or not put windows on their store, right? People will smash windows on stores and steal their shit. Its EXTREMELY unlikely she asks you to go fucking fight the guy.īecause thats fucking stupid and not a solution. Its probably gonna be "Im fine I got this" or "Whatever its not a big deal, thats just a thing that happens, lets just move one" or "Come with me while we talk to the bouncer and back my story up" or "Lets get out of here" Its fucking 2020, you ask her if she needs help, you protect her, you make her feel safe, you ask her what she needs you to do.Īnd I 100% guarantee its not gonna be "Go fuckin fight that dude!" Your assumption of the man having to jump in and fight is built on top of a foundation that women are weak frail little flowers that wilt at the slightest touch and just have to sit there and take it when a guy grabs there ass. You think they just roll over and take it? Or do you think they arent already used to that shit and have ways to deal with it? They dont have a big tough guy to defend their womanly honor. You realise single women get their asses grabbed constantly, all the time, at clubs right?
